After 15 years working overseas in Hong Kong, Taiwan,
Philippines and United Kingdom, we came home in 1997 for retirement. The first
few years we used to host the reunion dinner. As age catches up with us, our
son and family have taken over this responsibility and we go to their home to
celebrate this important event.
Our daughter with her family will celebrate the reunion
dinner at her husband’s family home.The festival traditionally begins on the first day of the first lunar month and in the Chinese calendar it ends on the 15th which is called Lantern Festival.
On the first day, the
oldest and most senior members are visited. The visits serve to strengthen
family ties. Bài nián refers to both, pay a New Year's call as well as 'wishing
somebody a Happy New Year'.
In Singapore and Malaysia, the custom is for the visitor to
bring two mandarin oranges and offer them to the host or hostess, using both
hands as a mark of respect. The host accepts the fruit and reciprocates with
two mandarin oranges – in other words exchanging gifts of blessings.
Our home will be open to visitors, no appointment is needed,
so don’t be surprised you might be
meeting many strangers!
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